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Parenting Courses Stockport

See below for detailed information and expert resources on parenting courses in Stockport, that provide access to family coaching, parenting skills, parenting tips, prenatal classes, advice on difficult children and teenagers, as well as counseling on child development. Read on to learn more and check the available resources to find parenting courses in your area.

Stockport Christian Counselling
0161-428 7388
Thomson St
Stockport
 
Bramhall Confidential Counselling
0161-439 9665
Moss La
Stockport
 
Marriage Care
0800 389 3801
Lower Chatham Street
Manchester
 
Densham Deborah
0161-973 9221
1 Forest Dr
Sale
 
Citizens Advice Bureau
01625 426303
Sunderland Ho/Sunderland St
Macclesfield
 
Citizen Advice Bureau
0844 8269800
c/o Cheadle Library 23 Ashfield Road
Cheadle
 
Couples counselling in Cheadle
07719329162
19 Halstead Grove, Gatley
Manchester
Specialties
couples counselling; depression; bereavement; anxiety
Gender
female
Insurance
yes

North Cheshire Counselling
0161-969 6555
64 Marsland Rd
Sale
 
Community Counselling
0161-789 4286
20 Harvard Gr
Salford
 
Anderson R
01625 616247
14 Brampton Av
Macclesfield
 

Stop Your Kids Fighting

Supernanny Team Logo By  Supernanny Team 21/01/2009

“Your kids fight?” people ask Judy Arnall incredulously, when I’m presenting a parenting workshop. “Of course!” she answers. “Every person in a love relationship fights.”

Every relationship has conflict – it’s normal and inevitable to disagree. However, the determining factor in the quality of the relationship is how the fights get resolved. Conflict happens between spouses, partners, relatives, friends, neighbors, co-workers, group members, governments, countries and everyone else. Why would the sibling relationship be different? You know it’s going to happen. But like many things in parenting, it’s better to know what you are dealing with and have some planned strategies to try.

First, know that there are basically four types of sibling conflict and that each is driven by an underlying feeling – because most all relationship fights are generally about feelings, and not so much about the presenting issues. So the best way to deal with sibling fights is to deal head on with the feelings, rather than the issue. Here are the reasons kids fight, and what the child’s underlying feelings are…

Boredom

What better way for your child to have some fun when he’s bored than to bug someone he knows is going to give him a great reaction?

Unhelpful parent strategy Ignoring the fight and punishing your child.

Helpful parent strategy Give your child a new, interesting activity that is work, fun or something to do with you or someone else. Casually separating the children also helps, but don’t make it an enforced time-out.

Parental attention

Your child is feeling left out, unloved, or un-noticed, and is silently screaming, “Notice me, whether negatively or positively, just notice me!”

Unhelpful parent strategy Giving negative attention in the form of a punishment, time-out, or time spent playing judge and jury.

Helpful parent strategy Avoid punishments. Ignore the fighting, but give more individual time and attention later when the fighting has subsided. Schedule a date night or time alone with just that child. Acknowledge pleasant sibling interactions when they occur.

Issues

Your child is angry because he perceives that he’s being victimized, or has feelings of frustration or injustice.

Unhelpful parent strategy Playing judge by directing who the perpetrator and victim was, and how restitution should be made, according to how you see things. Taking away fought over toys or privileges. Punishing both children regardless of the issue.

Helpful parent strategy Avoid punishments. Accept and acknowledge each child’s feelings and point of view and try to help them express it to the other child. Help them come to solutions that both agree on (help them generate the ideas rather than doing it for them). In addition, give each child input in family rule formation. Teach problem-solving skills and then coach them through the process. Teach anger management strategies and self-calming techniq...

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